Thinking about pre-planning a funeral but don’t know where to start? Like most people, you probably have lots of questions about how funerals work and need answers quickly. Unlike most most people though, you’re ahead of the curve by taking the first steps in the funeral planning journey.
As with anything in life, timing is everything, and choice certainly matters. Arranging your funeral in advance allows you to create a customized plan for exactly how you want things done after you die. Though the process may seem overwhelming at first (what with all the services, options, and costs involved), we’ve compiled a comprehensive guide on everything you need to know about pre-planning a funeral.
First things first, you need to decide between burial or cremation. This may seem like the final step in the end of life process, but this decision has a significant impact on the type of funeral service or cremation service that’s arranged.
If you like the idea of family and friends coming together to say their last goodbyes, followed by a graveside burial, a traditional funeral service is a great option. If cremation is a personal desire, you can still plan a full-service cremation ceremony, which is simply a traditional funeral service without burial.
A traditional funeral service should include the following elements:
Cremation continues to grow in popularity in the United States. You can pre-plan a direct cremation or a full-service cremation, according to your preferences.
There are a variety of options for the disposition of cremated ashes. You can leave the final decision up to a chosen family member, so they may keep the ashes stored in an urn in a home, bury them in a cemetery, inter them in an above-ground niche, or something else altogether (a space launch, perhaps?). Alternatively, you can arrange for your family to scatter the ashes in a specific place on land or in a body of water (permission may be required depending on the location).
Do you want to publish an obituary or death notice? If so, think about who you’d like to write your obituary or consider writing it yourself. This can certainly apply to the eulogy, too. It’s important to remember that newspapers charge a fee to publish an obituary, so set aside funds as required or consider a different form of communication (eg. social media).
Pre-planning your funeral allows you to organize the ceremony and assign specific roles and responsibilities to family members or close friends.This gives them an opportunity to participate in the funeral service in a special way. Your funeral arrangements should define the following roles:
In addition, select a funeral home, crematory, or other funeral professional to assist with the final arrangements at the time of death. These services include transportation of the body, obtaining the death certificate, and ensuring that your funeral plans are in accordance with state regulations.
Total funeral costs depend of course on the specific options and services you choose. That said, a major part of your pre-planned funeral arrangements should detail how you will pay for the funeral service and burial/cremation expenses:
A funeral insurance policy may cover all the above costs, so it may be beneficial to look into getting a prepaid/preneed funeral contract to lock in today’s prices. Clearly document how you will pay for the funeral, and inform your family of your plans in advance so they don’t inadvertently spend money on funeral items already purchased.
If you have the ability to pre-plan your funeral, act now and get it done sooner rather than later. It’s a thoughtful gift to leave behind for your family and it gives you peace of mind to know that your final wishes will be carried out to the letter.
Remember, you don’t have to understand all the requirements for planning a funeral – that’s what funeral directors are for. A funeral director knows everything about funeral arrangements, and they can help you decide what services to select based on your overall preferences.
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