{"id":2521,"date":"2026-04-14T07:35:29","date_gmt":"2026-04-14T12:35:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.funeralocity.com\/blog\/?p=2521---4693da33-f905-4885-a6b9-279a2a265a35"},"modified":"2026-04-14T07:35:29","modified_gmt":"2026-04-14T12:35:29","slug":"how-to-discuss-making-funeral-arrangements-with-parents","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.funeralocity.com\/blog\/how-to-discuss-making-funeral-arrangements-with-parents\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Discuss Making Funeral Arrangements With Parents"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No one likes to think about funeral planning, especially people who are approaching advanced age. However, for the children of aging parents, it&#8217;s important to have a thorough conversation about funeral arrangements so that their parents&#8217; final wishes and needs can be met when they pass away. Here&#8217;s how to approach the topic carefully and considerately.<\/p>\r\n    <div class=\"single-content-banner\">\r\n                                    <div class=\"single-content-banner__shortcode\">\r\n                            <div class=\"input-search-wrapper input-search-wrapper--bottom\">\r\n            <h2 class=\"title-search\">See funeral home prices in your area<\/h2>\r\n            <div class=\"input-search search-home\">\r\n                <input placeholder=\"Enter your City or ZIP Code\" type=\"search\" class=\"addressMain\">\r\n                <button type=\"submit\" class=\"blue-button\">\r\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.funeralocity.com\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/funeralocity\/dist\/images\/icons\/search-button.svg\">Search\r\n                <\/button>\r\n            <\/div>\r\n            <span class=\"small-text\">Use zip code for more precise search results<\/span>\r\n        <\/div>\r\n                    <\/div>\r\n                        <\/div>\r\n\n<h2>Beginning the Discussion<\/h2>\n<p>Finding the right way to start the conversation about funeral planning can seem overwhelming, but there are a few strategies that should make it easier. One way is to begin by asking about a funeral they have been to recently and finding out what they liked and didn&#8217;t like about that person&#8217;s arrangements. Another way is to mention how a friend or family member struggled with planning their own parent&#8217;s funeral, and how proper planning can ensure that everything goes smoothly and according to everyone&#8217;s wishes.<\/p>\r\n    <div class=\"single-content-banner\">\r\n                                    <a href=\"https:\/\/funeralocity.com\/average-funeral-price\" class=\"single-content-banner__image\">\r\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"desktop\" src=\"https:\/\/www.funeralocity.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/Banner_1_desktop.png\" alt=\"Compare the cost of funerals in your city\">\r\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"tablet\" src=\"https:\/\/www.funeralocity.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/Banner_1_tablet.png\" alt=\"Compare the cost of funerals in your city\">\r\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"mobile\" src=\"https:\/\/www.funeralocity.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/Banner_1_mobile.png\" alt=\"Compare the cost of funerals in your city\">\r\n                <\/a>\r\n                        <\/div>\r\n\n<h2>Parents Should Be Central to the Conversation<\/h2>\n<p>However the conversation gets started, it&#8217;s critical that parents remain at the center of it. Remember to listen carefully to each and every one of their concerns, questions, and insights, and encourage them to be open and honest about their feelings. Additionally, especially if this is the first time funeral arrangements have been discussed, be sure to give parents as much time as they need to think things over and get used to the idea of planning their funeral. They shouldn&#8217;t have to decide everything all at once or feel rushed to finalize every detail.<\/p>\r\n    <div class=\"single-content-banner\">\r\n                                    <a href=\"https:\/\/funeralocity.com\/cremationclub\" class=\"single-content-banner__image\">\r\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"desktop\" src=\"https:\/\/www.funeralocity.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/cc-price.svg\" alt=\"Advanced directive planning - for peace of mind\">\r\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"tablet\" src=\"https:\/\/www.funeralocity.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/cc-price-t.svg\" alt=\"Advanced directive planning - for peace of mind\">\r\n                    <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"mobile\" src=\"https:\/\/www.funeralocity.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/cc-price-m.svg\" alt=\"Advanced directive planning - for peace of mind\">\r\n                <\/a>\r\n                        <\/div>\r\n\n<h2>Asking the Important Questions<\/h2>\n<p>There are several key questions and topics that should be addressed during a conversation with parents about funeral planning. Do they have an idea of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.funeralocity.com\/search\/\">which funeral home<\/a> they&#8217;ll want to handle the services, and what are their preferences and expectations for the service? Do they want to be buried or cremated? Do they have a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.funeralocity.com\/blog\/2019\/03\/18\/the-ultimate-guide-on-paying-for-a-funeral\/\">financial plan<\/a> in place to address expenses? The only way to ensure that parents&#8217; desires are met is to ask these and other important questions.<\/p>\n<p>When the time comes to make funeral arrangements with parents, Funeralocity can help. We enable users to compare funeral homes and make an informed choice. Learn more about our services by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.funeralocity.com\/faq\">visiting our FAQs page<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No one likes to think about funeral planning, especially people who are approaching advanced age. 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