Attending a funeral is simply one of life\u2019s unavoidable milestones. But because people rarely ever talk about funerals, it\u2019s hard to know what to expect. What exactly are you supposed to do? What do you say? How should you dress? This essential guide to funeral etiquette do\u2019s and don\u2019ts can help you figure it all out.<\/p>\n
A funeral doesn\u2019t always need to be a sad occasion but it\u2019s certainly an opportunity to honor the deceased, pay last respects, and support the grieving family. To help you understand general funeral etiquette rules, Funeralocity<\/a> has compiled a list of \u201cdo\u2019s and don\u2019ts\u201d to guide you through this difficult time.<\/p>\n It can be hard to find the right words when consoling the bereaved family, but try to stay away from meaningless cliches. Speak from the heart by discussing your relationship to the deceased, or by sharing a happy memory. If you really don\u2019t know what to say, a simple \u201cI\u2019m sorry for your loss,\u201d<\/em> or \u201cPlease accept my sincere condolences\u201d<\/em> will still be appreciated.<\/p>\n A gift is not expected or required but if you feel the need to give something, sympathy flowers or cards are usually appropriate. Sometimes only immediate family or close friends are allowed to bring funeral flowers or wreaths for the casket, so it\u2019s best to check with the funeral director before buying a large bouquet.<\/p>\n Many families request donations in lieu of flowers. In this case, you should make a contribution to the chosen charity as directed. If you still want to send flowers, send them to the funeral home or to home of the bereaved family, along with a note or card.<\/p>\r\n What to Say to the Family<\/span><\/h3>\n
What to Bring to the Funeral Service<\/span><\/h3>\n